Lazy Sunday Afternoon
Alright, I started writing this post after I heard a song about this a man who misses his former girlfriend and telling memories when they started falling in love. He would do anything just to having her stand by him. And still he couldn’t let go of her. In the end, there is no any single reply from the girl.
The man said “I miss you so much and it hurts”. Is it hurt to miss someone? Is it painful when you are thinking about the one you care so much? I would say, based on my experience, it ishurt when you miss someone that you won’t be able to be together, and you know it in a very deep of your heart and aware of that. Although you suffer the pain, still you can’t get the feeling away, can you?
Anyways, it’s still up to you whether you challenge against it, or let your feeling gets the best of you.
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Yep, missing anyone can cause so much pain especially under the circumstances that you described. If you know you can't see her again, it's normal to feel a loss. Someone once told me that it can feel as bad as if your were experiencing a death. I'd just tell you to go with whatever you were feeling. I mean, if it hurts, cry. Take the time to get back on your feet and see things clearly. Try not to jump into another relationship just to replace her. I'm sure you already know how bad rebound relationships can be. If you don't know, let me tell you, THEY'RE HORRIBLE!
Good luck and thanks for sharing:)
masalahnya i don't know the context of ur relationship sih sobh. tp do u feel like theres some unfinished business?kdg2 yg buat kita masi trbayang2 itu krn ada yg kaya gak terselesaikan. have you tried talking to her about it again? hmm pasti lo mrasa makin suppressed gara2 gak balik jg ya? hehehe. yahhh sabar deh to. gw mrasa sotoi nih sok2 kasih opini. tp... apayaaaaaah.. gw bisa ngertiin perasaan being aware of the fact that you cant be together anymore. but time heals, people and feelings also change. it might take several weeks, months, or even years, but you will get there. that is... if you want to. hehe. tp processnya gak bisa dicepetin gitu aja,, it must be natural and you need to experience every single pain. bcos thats the only way to get over things. it hurts, i know.. but pain is beautiful, especially when you can get a good outcome ;)
*i'm bullshiting nih, gak tidur gw smaleman wakaka maaf ya klo jdnya sotoi2an hahahahahahaha
*btw bkunjung jg dong ke blog gw scharahap.wordpress.com tinggalkan pesan! :)